On the evening before my 20th birthday I remember praying, asking God to bless the years of my twenties. Tonight is the eve of my 30th birthday and it feels like just yesterday that I prayed that prayer. Ten years have flown, and from the other side I can definitely say that God really has given me a blessed decade!
I appreciate that people much older than thirty, with a lot more life experience than me, may be reading this, but I do think I have learnt a few lessons from my twenties. After all, it was in my twenties that I graduated university, started my career, taught hundreds of people, travelled to nearly thirty countries, got married, and moved to the other side of the world. Safe to say, in all of that I have learnt a thing or two.
So here are thirty lessons from my twenties. Some of them may seem like cliché comments, but they are not. I have carefully selected them from first-hand experiences:
Lesson #1: The principals of God always stand (it may take years for you to see the fruit, but you will see it!). Always go God’s way.
Lesson #2: Find mentors and models in every season.
Lesson #3: Feelings don’t always tell the truth. Let the word of God be your standard of truth.
Lesson #4: Love people. Aside from God, people are the most precious thing you have. You will never regret loving people too much.
Lesson #5: Travel, experiences, nice things are fun, but don’t totally satisfy, and are not what life is about.
Lesson #6: Leaders are people, who we honour, but like you, they are also imperfect. Leaders are not God.
Lesson #7: No church is perfect, but she is still beautiful and Jesus still died for her. You need the church and the church needs you!
Lesson #8: You reap what you sow. Where you invest and sacrifice is where you reap reward.
Lesson #9: Have a vision for every area of your life.
Lesson #10: Life goes quickly. Spend your time well.
Lesson #11: God loves you more than you know. He knows more than you know.
Lesson #12: Hunger for wisdom (the way God does things).
Lesson #13: Look after your body. Your health is precious.
Lesson #14: People all over the world are the same. All of humanity hungers for the same core things – to be loved and valued.
Lesson #15: Ask lots of questions.
Lesson #16: Don’t push your way into opportunity. Be faithful, and let God open doors.
Lesson #17: Don’t take life too seriously. Have fun. Get over petty things. Regularly ask yourself, ‘in light of eternity, will this matter?’
Lesson #18: Worry will rob you.
Lesson #19: Thankfulness will protect you.
Lesson #20: Being busy is not something to be proud of.
Lesson #21: God will use everything.
Lesson #22: The degree to which you honour people, is the degree to which you will have influence over them.
Lesson #23: Sometimes God has something else planned.
Lesson #24: The best things in life are not instant and easy. They require vision, persistence, patience, and help from God.
Lesson #25: Live to give, not to get.
Lesson #26: Love people through their flaws.
Lesson #27: Work hard to keep your heart in a good place.
Lesson #28: What is popular, isn’t always right.
Lesson #29: Your attitude will take you further than your ability.
Lesson #30: Your words are seeds. Careful what you are sowing, because it will start growing!
A daily devotion for a better way of living.